I was just watching a movie with some of my friends here in Leeds, Never Been Kissed, a delightful, heartwarming, American film. However, the thing about watching a movie where everyone speaks in American English, is that upon completion of the film, I collapse backward in regards to my fluid understanding of British English. One of the girls said something to me directly after the film, and mixed with the volume of the credit music and her accent, she could have been saying anything and I would not have known, very
bizarre experience.
I will go on to share a few more cultural and linguistic experiences of mine the past week or so... Three times I ran into my friend, Maddy, the other day; she started off with saying, "are you alright?" I was a bit hungover and just assumed the night before shown on my face, so I explained that I was doing well but a bit tired... the first two times. The third time I responded with, "do I really look that bad? You've asked me three times today if I am alright?" and started laughing, because I assumed that I did, in fact, look as I felt... like a stomach full of old salad. TURNS OUT that I was having a cultural misunderstanding in regards to her greeting, which I learned today when a complete stranger and now friend also asked me, "are you alright?" I am meant to
interpret such a
query as "how's it going?" and not, as I had done, think of it as asking after my actual well-being. Quite the insight! Has made informal greetings much smoother for this occasionally awkward gal... lass.... :o)
I suddenly feel completely uncultured and socially inept when the most
insignificant differences in cultural practices are illuminated to me... partially due to the fact that my emotional reaction (usually a bit of a shock) is plastered all over my face. Such a minor difference arose, as they often do, in difference in common eating practices. Turns out, students across England are not busting out their George Foreman and making
quesadillas, actually, most people who have not visited the states had no idea what I was talking about when I said I wanted a
quesadilla. Cheese Toasties my friend, that is where it is AT! (yes preposition will stay at the end of that sentence for the effect.)
Happily, I am realizing that I have been in England for less than two weeks, and that it is quite alright that I am still adjusting to normal speech patterns and general slang, which is not so different from the states, but just different
enough to make me think twice about what I say.
Off with me now....
tithering through the dodgy bits to
nic some bits and bobs from my mate. hmmm... haha I wouldn't actually put that whole sentence together, I would sound incomprehensible. :o)